I wonder !!! and i always have this question why are some people so attracted easily sometimes?. how this love on sight is happening?.. how I tend to like the person just looking for the 1st time?
Don't worry guys there will not be any adult content discussed here.. and sorry for audience who expect some adult content.. lol...
What am i going to talk about?
The course of attraction are different for men and women. But, there are several common sign of attraction which will definitely work for both men and women.. This may be very common that u may be using this in your day today life but reading this may help you to understand that you are attracted by people knowingly or unknowingly by using this below factors. I personally use what ever is possible to me.. so let me talk about that.. if you think you are not using any one of these, use it and get attracted.
What general Factors influence in attraction?
Social involvement - how we mingle with people
Our inner intellectual mentality, thoughts process on several things and our attitude, etc.. - basically, how to express your inner you to others when ever needed
Materialistic - Depends on how much value you holds in the society.
Physical / fatal - Finally how you look.
I have listed this order based on the percentage of control we have to look attractive. I have listed physical at the bottom because we don't have or we have very less control over it..
How can we look attractive?
Good sense of humor- I believe one should have a sense of humor to be socially attractive by using good humor, generally by making people laugh.. If you choose the other way to make people laugh by teasing others, playing with their emotional feelings and making fun of your own by degrading yourself, that means bad humor.. this bad humor doesn't work for a long time because people may keep you away thinking that I may be the next scapegoat in this crowd. Your presence may keep them happy but u have no chance of being attracted. There is likely less chance of people stay with you in a long span.. So just avoid it.. i believe this bad humor will not have any impact on close friends circle..
Connecting with people always attractive- For instance if somebody is reaching you and talking to you about some of the topic which you are not familiar with and you have no idea regarding that to compete or reply for him.. Being in such place a attractive person will opt to listen to that person speech with interest and start discussing about the topic.
Making people comfortable- For instance if somebody is going in to a new atmosphere where nobody is known.. they may feel awkward being in that place thinking how to get introduced, how to sit with people where everyone is unknown, whom to get introduced and all such.. in such situation even though if you are also new to that place.. just by initiating the speech by welcoming everyone and having a jovial talk with smile looks attractive. Just take a second to think about what I said now because you may come across such people in your life.. I personally come across such people in my life.. so this is one such way of making connection.. Simply one who is making social connection looks attractive.
Repeated exposure- I think you guessed what i mean to say. yes, there are many chances that a person may like you if you repeatedly making them to see you.. this act will tend to make people fall in love in comfort. Have you heard? love always blooms in comfort.. lol.. Falling in love with your colleagues, School love, College love & People you meet in day today life are all attracted due to repeated exposure.
Appreciate and encouragement- One should have a good heart to encourage and appreciate if somebody is doing great things which is something very special or let it be very simple. If somebody appreciate your work.. our human mentality shows interest on that person automatically. So, i hope each one of you reading this post will encourage me for my work by clicking on the love icon & by leaving your comments below.
Uniqueness- Being unique is the other way of attracting people. It needs lot of effort and extraordinary skills. Its really hard for me..you guys try to be unique and be attractive..
Open minded people- One who is a good listener are more likely to get attracted.. If somebody is saying something to you just listen to them without argument and don't cross talk by not allowing to complete what they wanted to say.. I have come across so many such irritating people who don't have the patience to listen by objecting what ever we say.. Such people don't look attractive and there is more chances that people will stay away from such people. Because, every person will have their own perspective on things in this world.. You will look attractive when you obey others opinion by having the mindset of discussing without showing superiority in speaking. So obey other opinion and don't argue until their opinion or comment hurts you.
There is a misconception that speaking is the attraction.. I think no.. listening is the great way of attracting people.. I have experienced this and i am a good listener. listening in the sense its not just Listening.. Involving in the topic and discussing about that always looks attractive.. Generally, people will like to spend time with someone who have a tendency to listen than who speak continuously nonstop. Just think, for speaking you definitely need to have a good knowledge but for listening you don't need anything extraordinary.. so easy to attract..
Confidence- Person who is confident and does things with confidence will looks attractive.. even though he is not physically attractive.
Presenting yourself- The way you present yourself right based on the occasion means a lot and say stories about you without any words..
Be Thankful- Showing kindness and gratitude to others when ever is needed are also a good sign of attraction and this makes friendly relationships..
Materialistic - One may don't have a good social network or other qualities for attraction.. but he will look attractive to others because of his money and the material what he has.. This is instinct because he has everything for the survival in this world.. You may heard this before "money is always ultimate" . Being wealthy is fine but by acting wealthy is only okay until you gets caught, If people find you, you will be hated.. So don't try to act wealthy, this is why we hate people who show off.
Physical/ fatal attraction- Can we change our body, face or Color? no.. But, to some extent we can change our physical appearance by going to gym and doing heavy workout.. But it looks artificial and this fatal attraction will not stay long, it fades over time.. Being natural is healthy all the way.. If you are thinking you are not fit for doing your day today activities then u may think to go for gym, jog etc.. Apart from that i don't think changing our appearance is not the right way of attraction.
I took this opportunity to express what means attractive to me and for almost most of the people.. Please leave your comment if i forget to address any other things which looks attractive and click on the love icon if u like.. Also subscribe for instant notification of INTERROGATIVE
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